Scott Tyler, an X user on Thursday deleted his account after being bashed over the insensitivity of his post.
Tyler had in his post expressed feelings of being left out as the wife focused more on their eight weeks old first born and ignored his existence, as well as not been intimate with him.
He had implied that most men cheat when their wife gave birth as all the attention have to be focus on the baby and not the husband.
The X user went further to acknowledge that he had to cause a ruckus at home before the new mom who had been ignoring him for weeks could talk to him.
However the X users wouldn’t have it, especially when he claimed ‘baby is easy’. So many people went to his post, insulting him for being insensitive to the new mom who may be suffering postpartum depression. While some queried if he help with diapers changing, waking up in the middle of the night to attend to the baby needs and all.
@turtlesongfarm: “YOUR BABY IS 8 WEEKS OLD, AND YOU’VE ALREADY PRESSURED YOUR WIFE INTO SEX!?!!? She’s exhausted. She’s only barely healed. Keep pressuring her tho she’s exhausted, and you will ruin your marriage because she will stop believing that you care about her wellbeing. Good luck.”
@rivier: “He’s provided a perfect social example of Gisèle’s demand – “la honte doit changer de camp.” Trying to shame the mother of his child into servicing him like he was her owner is disgusting, and horribly pervasive. It’s time to shame that corrosive male selfishness into oblivion.”
@AnneUndone1: “It’s not about feeling like you’re second place for a bit. That’s normal. Most men understand why. This man is suggesting cheating and says he’s picking fights with his post-partum wife for attention and sex. It’s not the feelings that are the issue, but his behavior.”
@AmericanThoroughbred3: “I’m sure the “baby was easy”. He didn’t birth the baby and probably doesn’t do any feeding diaper changer or play with said baby.”
@likelyvoterc: “Having a newborn is fracking hard. Your body goes through trauma and directly afterwards you’re responsible for a new life. There’s absolutely nothing easy about it. That he used the word easy in this context is truly baffling.”
@PRoachND: “My sister went through this with her abusive ex-husband. She’d had a particularly difficult birth with her second and a difficult recovery. He shamed her for not wanting to be intimate, and called her fat relentlessly (she hadn’t shed her baby weight). This guy reminds me of him.”
Tyler who could not keep up with the bashing had to delete his post and when that wasn’t reducing the heat, he deleted his account. However there are a few people in his corner who feel women are being partial as all the guy did was a simple expression of feelings.
@Gsmoothie24: ”Imagine thinking you’ve created the perfect family that you love completely and you’re ignored by the person you’ve married? Quit weaponizing emotions and discounting mens feelings.”
Y2K2pointO: ““Men should just shut up and pay money, and never expect to be treated like humans with feelings” also… “why are men such sociopaths?”
@tormntos: “Imagine being so tone deaf [read, paucity of human compassion] that you would be cruel and so ugly judgmental to a hurting person who wants some direction. A new baby is a major adjustment for everyone. And you shamed him…Shame on you.”
SleeplessSW: “Women lie when they say they want men to open up more.”
@melissa52147406: “I think a lot of men go through these feelings of being left out.”

BY: Adeoye Olorunseun Elizabeth